In Memory of Dr. Matthew Nelms

It is with heavy hearts that we share that a member of our University of Toronto MD alumni community, Dr. Matthew William Nelms (MD '23), has passed away.

Matthew was a graduate of the Temerty Faculty of Medicine's MD Class of 2T3, enrolled in residency in anesthesiology at McMaster University. Soon after graduation he was diagnosed with colorectal cancer and fought his battle with cancer right until the end. He passed away peacefully on July 30, 2024, surrounded by his loving family and his beautiful wife Jessica.

Although he was taken from us far too young, not a day went by where he did not do everything in his power to pursue his goals, challenge his cancer and enjoy his life with Jessica, their dog Ryder and his family. We are proud to write that he never once let his cancer define who he was, or the life that he wanted for himself and his family; truly an inspiration to others battling this life shattering disease.

Matthew was more than just an excellent academic and clinician; he was an outstanding human being who truly understood how to capitalize on the gift of life. Dr. Nelms lived life ferociously and without fear, a quality he inspired in those around him. A true adventurer at heart, Matthew was always eager to explore new horizons and embrace life’s challenges with an open mind. Whether it was skiing, fishing, golfing, camping or a plane ride to a new corner of the world, Matthew loved seeking out all the unique experiences the world has to offer.

Matthew approached life with a level of enthusiasm and curiosity that serves as an inspiration to all those who love him. His love for living in, and making the most of, every moment is something he has instilled in his friends and family. Even when faced with the rigours of medical training, Matthew never failed to achieve a full and balanced life. When faced with the transition to online learning during the pandemic, Matthew made sure to make the most of a challenging situation by moving to Golden, British Columbia. While there, he worked hard throughout the days to ensure his academic duties were fulfilled before spending his evening doing what he loved on the slopes of the Rockies with his wife and brother. In the midst of a busy clerkship schedule, his limited time off was dedicated to hosting his friends at his family cottage for weekends full of laughter and celebration of achievement. His commitment to being a dedicated friend, family member and partner was unwavering and he was never too busy to be there for those who needed him.

While balancing a personal life was a priority to Matthew, his clinical duties and caring for his patients was something he was certain to never compromise. This commitment was recognized by those around as he was awarded the Golden Stethoscope Award, a prestigious award given to medical students who demonstrate outstanding compassion, altruism, and clinical excellence. Those who had the privilege to work with Matthew can attest to the fact that these qualities do not even begin to describe the exemplary young physician he was. Matthew will be remembered by those who knew him as the type of person who went above and beyond for those in need, lending a hand to all no matter the request. An integral part of his kind nature was to put others before himself and always give everyone the benefit of the doubt. Perhaps this was what allowed Matthew to foster deep connections in any room he entered. His warmth, kindness and charisma were contagious as he livened up every gathering. Everyone who had the privilege of knowing Matthew can speak to his compassionate nature and will cherish his memory fondly no matter when or where their connection began.

Beyond these traits, one of the greatest losses with his passing is the love that Matthew gave to those close to him. He was an amazing brother, an exemplary son, the greatest friend and a devoted partner. His memory lives on in the hearts of all those who loved him and his legacy will be carried on by the many lives he’s forever impacted.

In his final days, Matthew’s giving and caring spirit was never lost. Amongst his final wishes, he asked that his memory be used to continue to help others pursue their dreams of providing care for their communities. In light of this, his family and friends are in the midst of organizing the Matthew Nelms Foundation, which will be dedicated to financially supporting young adults suffering from cancer.

Written with love by his forever friends, bound deeply by their years as MD 2T3 students, Amanda, Mitchell, Shakiba, Victoria, Sean, Benji and Lukas.